An Open Letter To All The Guys Who Take Love Casually


Dear Guys,

I hope you are doing good. I wish you all the happiness that you deserve. But just wanted to let you know one thing- Love is not a casual affair. It takes a heart full of true emotions. It demands care, time and attention. It demands affection. It demands sincerity. But you will never understand what it feels like because it was just a casual affair. Love is all about respecting each other’s shortcomings and forgiving each other’s misgivings. But you won’t know what it takes to give your all because it was just a casual affair. While you search for a perfectionist for yourself, you choose to forget the fact that you are imperfect too. But that didn’t even matter to you because it was just a casual affair. She gave you her heart and you chose to break it apart because it was just a casual affair. She was waiting to meet you while you waited for a perfect girl to cross your way because she was just a casual affair. She called you up numerous times but you chose not to take her calls because it was just a casual affair. She tried to show her affection but it hardly did affect you because it was just a casual affair. All she ever wanted from you was your company but you had your own because she was just a casual affair.The girl who chose to be with you when you were at your lowest didn’t deserve a bit of your success because you see, it was just a casual affair. All she did was to love you endlessly but Oh Boy! for you, it was just a casual affair.

Guys, having a casual affair won’t make your life fair either. Stop taking love so casually. It’s not a game to be played with, it’s an emotion. Stop acting smart when all you can be is a loser. Don’t pretend to love someone when all you can do is break their heart. Don’t pretend to give your all when all you can do is make them feel small. Don’t try to act mature while letting your actions reveal your immaturity. Stop treating a good woman like shit and learn to remain single rather than pretending to just mingle for the sake of a casual affair. Coz guys love is not a casual affair.

Yours Sincerely,
A Candid Girl

Republished on Thought Catalog

 

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46 thoughts on “An Open Letter To All The Guys Who Take Love Casually

  1. Brilliant writing !
    But why only boys it can apply on both girls and boys
    😀
    M sorry !Damn sure you are thinking that I said that because I am a boy and I am taking their side
    But I have lot of examples when both (girl and boy ) are in relationship just for time pass they just want to spend their college life together after that they have no future plan
    We can say they love each other for a agreement .
    I agree lot of boys do play with girl’s feelings but now days these cases also exist
    Sorry if I am wrong
    Bytheway
    You have written so well

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    1. I totally agree with you. Just because I am a girl doesn’t mean I’ll totally blame the boys for ditching. Yes, even girls are not loyal. That’s why my heading read, “An Open Letter To All The Guys Who Take Love Casually” which excludes the loyal lot from the not so loyal ones. Thanks. 🙂

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