Dear Guys,
I hope you are doing good. I wish you all the happiness that you deserve. But just wanted to let you know one thing- Love is not a casual affair. It takes a heart full of true emotions. It demands care, time and attention. It demands affection. It demands sincerity. But you will never understand what it feels like because it was just a casual affair. Love is all about respecting each other’s shortcomings and forgiving each other’s misgivings. But you won’t know what it takes to give your all because it was just a casual affair. While you search for a perfectionist for yourself, you choose to forget the fact that you are imperfect too. But that didn’t even matter to you because it was just a casual affair. She gave you her heart and you chose to break it apart because it was just a casual affair. She was waiting to meet you while you waited for a perfect girl to cross your way because she was just a casual affair. She called you up numerous times but you chose not to take her calls because it was just a casual affair. She tried to show her affection but it hardly did affect you because it was just a casual affair. All she ever wanted from you was your company but you had your own because she was just a casual affair.The girl who chose to be with you when you were at your lowest didn’t deserve a bit of your success because you see, it was just a casual affair. All she did was to love you endlessly but Oh Boy! for you, it was just a casual affair.
Guys, having a casual affair won’t make your life fair either. Stop taking love so casually. It’s not a game to be played with, it’s an emotion. Stop acting smart when all you can be is a loser. Don’t pretend to love someone when all you can do is break their heart. Don’t pretend to give your all when all you can do is make them feel small. Don’t try to act mature while letting your actions reveal your immaturity. Stop treating a good woman like shit and learn to remain single rather than pretending to just mingle for the sake of a casual affair. Coz guys love is not a casual affair.
Yours Sincerely,
A Candid Girl
Republished on Thought Catalog
‘Don’t pretend to give your all when all you can do is make them feel small’
So beautifully put. Amazing post.
Good day to you. X)
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Thank you. 🙂
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Very deep feelings…
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Thank you. 🙂
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Hi Sheetal,
I have nominated you for a tag. Please visit https://deepikamanohar.wordpress.com/2017/03/22/im-thankful-for-the-tag/ for details. Thank you
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Thank you so much. 🙂 I am highly honored. Will get back to it in a bit. 🙂
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👍
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Did it came out of anger or disturbance or mix of both or something else…
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It was just random. 🙂
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I could read a book about this without finding such real-world aparopches!
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Thank you Liza. Glad that you liked it. You can read my other posts too. 🙂
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You explain very beautifully the natural love. very nice post
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Thank you. 🙂
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welcome
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Great post!!!!! This is amazing!!!!!!!! Thanks for sharing!
Please check out my submission to COLLEGE MATE
https://collegemate.org/2017/03/21/decoding-the-bro-code-one-night-stand-or-long-term-girlfriend/
I would love your feedback and support!
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Thank you Pinkspen. Will surely read your posts too. 🙂
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Please do!!!!! I am looking forward to your thoughts!
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Already done. 🙂
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Thank you soooo much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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No need for that. The post deserved it. 🙂
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Still, I can’t thank you enough for your support! I love talking to you and sharing views!
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Same here. 🙂
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😉😙😍😆
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Brilliant writing !
But why only boys it can apply on both girls and boys
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M sorry !Damn sure you are thinking that I said that because I am a boy and I am taking their side
But I have lot of examples when both (girl and boy ) are in relationship just for time pass they just want to spend their college life together after that they have no future plan
We can say they love each other for a agreement .
I agree lot of boys do play with girl’s feelings but now days these cases also exist
Sorry if I am wrong
Bytheway
You have written so well
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I totally agree with you. Just because I am a girl doesn’t mean I’ll totally blame the boys for ditching. Yes, even girls are not loyal. That’s why my heading read, “An Open Letter To All The Guys Who Take Love Casually” which excludes the loyal lot from the not so loyal ones. Thanks. 🙂
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I really appreciate your kind words !
🙏🙏
Huge respect from the heart
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I really appreciate that you questioned so that I could clarify. 🙂
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As my name suggest ! I am confused
So i can’t stop myself , I have to ask questions 😀😀
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That’s actually a good trait in you. 😀 Don’t be confused in choosing your better half btw. 😛
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Hehehe don’t know it’s good or bad
That’s why I am still single
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You picked that point nicely
Yes I will be confused forever
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Oh! Poor she. 😛
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Hehehe
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😀
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Oh my… this is beautiful and so deep. Love is real and should be taken seriously, it doesn’t come everyday. When you find it, you hold on.
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Absolutely. 🙂 Thank you. 🙂
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Am sure most guys got nervous about to read this lol. Nice way to put your thoughts together.
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Haha. I think you got nervous too. 😀 Thank you for the appreciation. 🙂
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ahahhaa a little lol. You got it 😀
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Yeah. 😀
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This is so apt..I’m loved reading this..Hopefully the guys in this line will read and learn…..Totally sharing this
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Haha. Thanks for sharing. 😊
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You are welcome dear…
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Yayy much love. 😍❤
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I love how deep and raw this is! It’s so relatable it was truly a beautiful piece
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Thank you so much. Glad you liked it. 😊
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